Do you know what you want?
Are you making life and business choices based on your true inner most desires on a daily basis?
As women, we tend to give and give and give to those around us… often times at our own expense. Many of us have learned from an early age that this behavior, which I lovingly refer to as “auto-give” is normal and even expected. Many of you have given over your time and energy to those around you for so long it’s like learning a totally new skill to be able to choose for yourself …
Learning to make authentic choices is a big part of getting clear on your divine mission, vision for your business and intention around what you truly want to create. I worked with a client who had become so out of touch with her authentic choices that she couldn’t tell me what she wanted for lunch!
We worked together to awaken the choices within her. We started small. A memory that came back to her strongly was one of enjoying caramel apples as a kid. Now, once a week instead of her usual cup of coffee on her way to work, she gets a caramel latte. Drinking her caramel latte has become a decedent act of self-love. As she drinks she thinks about all the things she appreciates about herself, and her life.
And, what’s even more important… she’s training her subconscious to believe that she gets to have her life the way she wants it – (and this isn’t about eating caramel and pizza every day, although it would taste good!). However, this small act of sweet self-adoration has helped my client to rediscover her love for watercolor painting, music and other small declarations of preference.
It’s no surprise to me that it was on a caramel-latte day when she was feeling her own inner glow that her boss offered her a job that was less hours for more money. And though this job still isn’t perfect, she has more hours now in her week to contemplate her strategy for building a bridge into running her purposeful business full time.
Take a moment and ask yourself…
What do you enjoy?
What flavors, colors or scents do you enjoy?
What’s your favorite kind of food?
What part of your day do you like the most?
What would your ideal daily schedule look like? Monthly schedule?
What do you like to do for meals? Cook? Eat out?
So the next time someone asks you what you want to do
or where you want to eat…You NEVER say “I don’t know, what do YOU want…”
Instead- you know your authentic choices and state them boldly!!!
Take some time to contemplate what YOU like, and choose a small act of CHOICE today… like pulling out some of your old favorite music to buggy to… or stopping at the bakery on your way home to get that favorite pastry … Why should you clarify your preferences? You will learn to trust yourself as you tune into your Intuition guiding you towards your Life Purpose Business Path.
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